Rant (Sort of) Beware Security Experts Selling “Stuff”

I just heard of an interesting approach to business and personal security.  A big (actually Very Big) law firm around here brought in a security expert to advise its lawyers and the staff working there about personal security.  From what I understand, the lectures were pretty standard stuff–a lot like what you can read here and in many other places.

But there was a kicker:  the security expert was touting his firm’s self-defense spray; a supposedly extra-strong pepper spray that would disable, distract or otherwise occupy the attacker’s attention so the victim could get away.  Only one little problem:  In Washington, D.C.  that spray is illegal.  So there you are folks:  a security expert who is selling a product it is illegal to carry in the city where he is selling it, and telling people he is advising to buy and carry it.  Even more ironic:  he’s doing this to a bunch of lawyer and paralegals and legal secretaries, and other legal support staff.

I don’t know about you, but I’ve gotta wonder about this guy.

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Women travelers

I was talking with a woman friend recently who travels a lot as part of her job.  She gave me this tip, which I should have thought of:  if you are a woman traveling alone with a group of men and you are concerned about either 1 of the men or about your reputation, get a room in a different hotel.

Now before the flames start, I’m not saying that this precaution should be needed, in fact, it is offensive that she felt it was needed.  But… this blog is about the world as it is, not as it should be; and in the world as it is, there are times when this situation might arise.  So take a tip from another woman: stay somewhere else.

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Self Defense and the duty to retreat

Somebody called a Chicago Tribune column by John Kass to my attention.  Apparently Mike Mette is going to prison in Iowa for throwing 1 punch at a man who attacked him verbally and physically pushed him.  Maybe a punch or punches were thrown the story is a little unclear.  Anyway, Metter threw 1 punch–a good one.  The punch knocked the man out.  Self Defense No?  That’s what Kass is saying and to many people it makes sense.   It makes sense to me too–you put your hands on me & you get whatever I feel like giving you.

But some states have another view.  In those states (and I bet Iowa is one of them) people have a duty to retreat until retreat is not an option.  Only then may you resist.  O, there is another thing too:  apparently Mette threw a really good punch since the other guy was knocked out.   (There are allegations that the injured man was also stomped & kicked, but the evidence on that was strongly contested.)

Furthermore, there is some sort of informal proportionality rule that juries like to use sometimes:  If you get a swollen lip you can black the guy’s eye but you cannot break his arm.  Looks to me like Mette violated this informal rule too–it may not break the law but it sure gets people upset.

Moral of the story :  Walk away if you can.

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“Rape Whistles”

At a seminar I did recently someone asked me about carrying a “rape whistle” on her key chain.  I don’t think much of that idea and this is why:

1.  you are carrying the key in your hand, not the whistle so you don’t have to fumble for the key
2.  If you are attacked you have to
a) hold on to the keys,
b) change your grip on the key chain to get the whistle,
c) put the whistle to your lips and
d) Blow hard while you are scared and being grabbed, pulled or dragged.

3.  Then you have to hope someone will hear it and come to the rescue.

If you think you can do all these things while being attacked, you are a better person than I. if you have that much faith that someone will come (especially at night, in the dark, taking a risk for someone they don’t know) you have more faith in human nature than I.  Maybe that makes me cynical.  But maybe that makes me realistic.

Something more too–do you want to be someone who is dependent on others for your safety?  Or would you rather not rely on others for your safety but rely on yourself first?  I vote for the latter.

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Mace & Pepper Spray Part 1

I was teaching a seminar on how to protect yourself to a college sorority last week.  Thank you all ladies of Alpha Phi at GMU it was a wonderful experience and I enjoyed talking to all of you.  But seriously, one of you asked an interesting question about Mace & Pepper Spray.  You carried in on your key chain and thought that might help.  Well ……

First, in Washington DC that stuff you are carrying is illegal and if you get caught with it you will go to jail.  In DC they treat Mace & Pepper Spray as if it is a handgun.  The stuff is legal in Virginia but not everywhere. D.C. is not the only place where the stuff is illegal. So if you are going to carry it, obey the law.  If you don’t know what the law is, find out.  You don’t want to go to jail for carrying something to protect yourself.

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Mace & Pepper Spray Part 2

Another issue with carrying Mace or Pepper Spray:  some people aren’t affected by it.  You can hit me with pepper spray and it just clears my sinuses.  Mace just makes my eyes water badly but it’s not completely incapacitating.  Military grade mace is different–but you cannot but it on the street.  So I’m not sure the stuff works well enough to be relied upon.

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Mace & Pepper Spray part 3

Another issue with Mace & Pepper Spray:  you have to carry it in your hand, ready to use.  You cannot fumble for it when you need it.  So carrying it on your keys doesn’t make much sense:  If your key is in your hand the spray is not.  So it doesn’t help you.

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Mace & Pepper Spray part 4

Are you really prepared to spray someone as they approach you?  Are you going to hesitate?  These sprays won’t work if an attacker already has his hands on you–you will only spray yourself.  Worse, can you use the spray accurately enough to hit the attacker in the face as they approach?  Have you practiced?  If so, you know it’s not easy to do.

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Christmas Presents

We’re approaching the Holiday season now and the present-buying time is approaching. Well, something that came up at my seminar for the Alpha Phi ladies of GMU is this:  the police stop cars periodically, especially as the holidays approach us.  Sometimes they ask to look in the trunk. If you have been collecting presents to take home for the Holidays, and if you don’t have the receipts with the presents, you can easily find yourself accused of stealing the presents.  So keep your receipts with the presents. (And , if you can, it’s probably smart to take the presents out of the car until it’s time to take them to their intended recipients.)

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laptops

Someone I know left a laptop sitting on their kitchen table for a little while. When they returned the laptop was gone.  So was a lot of other stuff that was on the laptop.  Fortunately, it was not a total disaster.  They had just recently downloaded a lot of stuff from it–like irreplaceable photographs.  This is not an unusual event.  I read somewhere that laptops disappear constantly (I can’t remember now how often, but I was surprised.)  Now there are a lot of possible “fixes” for the problem of disappearing laptops and I thought I would list a few of them:

1.  They do make a “lojack” for computers.  You load it on and whenever the machine is plugged into the internet is screams for help.  Well, actually it’s a little more complicated than that but, once the software is properly enabled, that’s what it does.  Then you can get the police to go recover the laptop.  Of course, this assumes you can get the police’s attention and agreement to do this. It also assumes that the police will move quickly enough that they can recover the stolen laptop.  I’m not sure about these assumptions but I would love to be proven wrong.  This option, however, does not keep whatever is on your machine private or confidential.

2.  Encrypt your hard drive so nobody can get to it.  This turns your machine into a brick.  It won’t let you recover the machine by itself (but you could use it w/ #1 above) but it will protect your information.

Here is my solution:

I keep my data on a main machine.  Then I buy a cheap laptop and load almost no software on it except one:  I use GoToMyPC from www.gotomypc.com.  This remote access service lets me link in to my main machine from anywhere there is a high-speed internet connection.   I can encrypt the main machine, protect it all I want. then work on my files remotely.  And if somebody steals my laptop, what do I care?  The durn things are only about $500 these days.

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