Office security

Do you think it’s possible for a stranger to just walk in to a government office, complete with security guards, pass cards, sign-in sheets and cameras and steal whatever she can?  Well, they can.  In this article we can read all about Ameenah Franks and how she did just that.  She used wit, charm, and simple chutzpah to do it.  When confronted she would consciously play the race card too!

What’s the moral for us?  Don’t hesitate to listen to your instincts.  Ask questions and don’t get put off by people trying to “play” you.

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It can’t happen here!

O yeah?  Right.  Well, here’s a story about someone who brought an armed bodyguard to a deposition.  And it wasn’t just any old firm.  This was Reggie Bush in his litigation about the alleged cash he was paid while he was in college.  The location was the white-shoe firm Pillsbury Winthrop Shaw Pittman, one of the largest and most prestigious firms in the U.S.

Can you imagine what might happen if the bodyguard has to give testimony?  Or if the client loses his cool?  It’s wonderful stories like this that explain why I am running this blog.

BTW:  I haven’t given a plug for my tip sheets recently so, if you are interested in them, go to www.BusinessBrawls.com, click on Resources and look for the 101 Business Protection Tips.  They are Free to a good home.

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It’s not just lawyers is it?

So there I am, having made my post for the day, when I come on this this one about a therapist who is killed by a client with a cleaver.  No puns now.  But it just goes to show:  If your business is one where you are dealing with emotionally fragile people, like therapists and lawyers, you have absolutely got to take precautions.

Now I don’t know what precautions this therapist took, but wouldn’t it have been nice if she had a panic button handly in her office?  Don’t know what a panic button is?  That will be my next post.

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Backup, backup and backup some more

I was reading an article on CNN about what to do to protect yourself in an emergency.  It was interesting.  Most, if not all the tips were ones I’ve made here, but I was reminded of something:  backups are great, not just for the computer.  Put your emergency contact information into your cell phone under “I C E” and put it in your wallet.  Do the same with your list of medications.  Put ICE information in the glove box of the car or in your briefcase.  Do the same with your medical information.

It’s not just computers that can fail.  If you get badly hurt in an auto accident or attack, your protectors will need this information.

PS:  Somebody came up with an possible improvement on the “ICE” number–they suggest AA ICE to keep the listing at the head of the page. What do you think?  Maybe put it both places?

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“The Gift of Fear”

At last!  Someone besides me is saying it.  And on Oprah! yet.  Gavin de Brecker went on Oprah last week and talked about his book “The Gift of Fear”.  I won’t quote the article but I agree with it completely.  I’ve posted it on this blog and said it over and over again:  Do *not* ignore your instincts. If you are getting bad “vibes” from someone there is a reason for it.  Listen to yourself.  Now, someone else is saying it.  If you won’t listen to me, listen to Oprah and Gavin de Becker.  Go to Oprah’s site and look at the stories.  All of them revolve around 1 thing and 1 thing only:  If you don’t listen to your instincts you are taking stupid risks.

Now, one more point:  de Becker talks about women on Oprah.  OK. But this advice goes to anyone who, at any time, in any place, gets that little warning “vibe” and hears the alarm bells go off.  I cannot say it more often:  Listen to your instincts!  Don’t worry about being politically incorrect, don’t worry about anything.  You can explain later.  The one thing you cannot explain is why your instincts were warning you and you refused to listen.

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Hints From Heloise

I wish I could find the durn thing online.  Last week there was a letter from a former police officer that the “Hints from Heloise” column published.  It was a short letter–only 3 paragraphs–but it managed to please me and enrage me all at the same time.  First, why it pleased me:  He suggested that people put their important medical information with their Driver’s license so it could be found in case of emergency.  That’s a good idea.

But then he went off the rails:  he basically blows off cell phones entirely.  That’s not just dumb, that’s wrong.  For several years now people have been told to put their emergency contact information on the phone under “I C E” [In Case of Emergency] and anybody who ignores this new protocol is just plain wrong!  Everyone should do that.

As an aside, I’ve got to wonder about his comment re:  garage door openers and glove boxes too.  After all, it is the police who insist we have license and registration in every car.  What does this guy think is on the registration for Pete’s sake?

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ID Theft

A friend of mine sent me his post about what to do if your identify is stolen.  I thought the idea of a credit freeze is very interesting.  If you are having a problem with this, you should go back in time to my entry from March 2, 2006, on ID Theft.  There are a number of other steps you can and should take to protect yourself, not just this credit freeze.  You should also visit the U.S. Gov’t’s website to help people whose identity has been stolen.  It’s full of useful tips.

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A Really GOOD article to read

I almost never see good articles about what to do to protect your home.  Many of the articles I do see are filled with urban legends or unhelpful “stuff” mixed in with good advice.  But I found the most amazing article on Burglarproofing Your Home.  If you care about how to protect your house, you should definitely read this article.  It truly is very good.

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Boy Scouts teach anti-bullying

OK. It’s official.  Bullying is wrong!  And the Boy Scouts are doing something about it.  The problem is what.  Check out this story about the latest revisions to the Boy Scouts Manual.  AP has characterized the Boy Scouts’ advice this way:  “Shaken down for your lunch money? Tell the bully how it hurts. Called a crater face? The 2008 Boy Scout Handbook recommends this comeback: “So what if I have a face full of zits. What’s it to you?”.  What a bunch of nonsense.

I’ve just been to a bunch of different websites about how to stop bullying.  Their advice to the kid seems to be 4 fold:  tell an adult, ignore it, run away, or give the bully what they want because it’s dangerous to fight back.  And above all else:  Don’t Fight Back!  Great!  The kid is already being abused, beaten or stolen from and you tell them it’s dangerous to fight back?  He!! it’s dangerous not to fight back too.

The advice to parents/schools is equally inane:  gather the facts, separate the children, tell the bully you won’t tolerate her behavior and ask the bully how they would feel if this were done to them.  Like any of that is really going to help.

OK loyal readers: What suggestions do you have to stop bullying?  Let’s talk about this.

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Fake Cops

They seem to show up in bunches.  But they can do a lot of damage.  Fortunately, some have bad luck, like this guy who pulled over a real cop.  If you aren’t a cop though, you could be in real trouble with people like this.  Now, 2 years ago (in November 2005) I wrote about what to do if you suspect you are being pulled over by a fake cop:  use your cell phone and dial “911” and ask the operator for help.  Be sure to stress that you are scared and have the operator either confirm that it’s a real cop following you or send the real cops asap.

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